Monday, April 16, 2007 ♥
Last heartbreak@12:33:00 PM
Dear Sayaaaaangs ,
Firaaaah here ! ♥
ONALASKA - We all ask why do our friends go behind out back all the time? Why are the our best friend sometimes and not always? Well here I have answers. For many years I myself have had friendship problems, from one friend talking behind my back to two friends always being there for me, never wanting to hurt me. In this entry and in more that will come I will be giving tips on all parts of life. Somedays I will have a movie or sometime of thing others will just be help from I, Mollie. Okay to start off sometimes you may be hanging around with the wrong group for instance, you could be hanging with the most "popular" group in school but you could be feeling left out. This is because these are not your real friends, friends are the ones who you can be your self around, not have to act like another person in the group jsut to fit in. You need to hang out with the right group in order to feel you have "good" friends. I know this because I have myself been cought in this situation were I was hanging with the wrong group. The wrong group isn't always the group that always gets in trouble, there are different ways to look at the word "wrong". Secondly you have to actully be yourself you can't act like you are but then everyone knows your not. You have to trust that no matter how hard life may be there is always someone else out there that has it harder then you. Thirdly you can't just hang out with a group just because every one in that group has a boyfriend/girlfriend, you have to remeber there are other groups who are just like you. Thinking no one like them or that they don't fit it, you have to remeber that the reason that they are like that is because the other groups wouldn't let them be in there group. Really when you think about it everyone is the same, just others stand out more when the are "weird" because no one ever gave them a chance to fit in so they felt that they misewell be who they really want to be, but inside no one wants to bo the kid with no friends or the "weird" table. So next time when you think of making fun of someone just think, "I complain and complain about how hard my life is,but i am making this kid's life this much harder by making fun of them."
It's All About Trust .
